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November 15, 2017
From Fr. Court -

"Celtic Christianity"

Kindling the Fire
I will raise the hearth-fire
As Mary would.
The encirclement of the Bride and of Mary
on the fire, and on the floor,
And on the household all.
Who are they on the bare floor?
John and Peter and Paul.
Who are they by my bed?
The lovely Bride and her Fosterling.
Who are those watching over my sleep?
The fair and loving Mary and her Lamb.
Who is that anear me?
The King of the sun, He himself it is.
Who is that at the back of my head?
The Son of Life without beginning, without time.
- Carmina Gadelica, (Edinburgh: Florisbooks, 2006, pg 94.) ed. C.J. Moore
I have always loved Celtic Christianity. Celtic spirituality is closely tied to both nature and the rhythms of life. There are prayers for rising from bed in the morning, prayers for lighting the hearth fire, and prayers for laying down at night. There are prayers related to the rain on the fields, the fish in the stream, and the deer on the hillside. There are prayers for birth, prayers for death, and prayers for every moment of life in between. 
In Celtic spirituality, God is not just someone that we go visit on Sunday morning. God is someone whom is intimately involved in our every day lives. God is with us and a part of every aspect of our experience as humans. God is present in whatever we are doing. In Celtic spirituality, one doesn't stop what one is doing in order to pray, one prays in what one is doing. You don't pray while washing dishes, washing dishes becomes prayer because God is present with us in it.
I cannot think of a more beautiful way to be present with God, and to recognize God's presence with us, than through the lens of Celtic spirituality. All those things we do each day are not mindless tasks which take us away from God, but spiritual practices which bind our every day life to God in myriad ways. Let's spend our days focused on the presence of God in every thing we do.

Yours in Christ, 
Parish Contact Information
Fr. Court's Office Hours

Tuesday - Friday
9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.
Parish Office Hours

Monday - Friday
9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.
For Pastoral Emergencies:
The Rev. Court Williams at 541-525-6567
To contact Fr. Court via email - click link below:  
Sunday's at Trinity

8:00 a.m.  Holy Eucharist 

9:00 a.m.   Fellowship
9:00 a.m.   Sunday School
9:00 a.m.   Adult Forum

10:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist

Please make sure to mail in your pledge form or bring your pledge form to church on Sunday and place in the collection plate.  Thank you
Trinity Family News

Congratulations to Susan & Peter Barber on the birth of their granddaughter, Courtenay Susan Barber, daughter of Joe and Kate Barber.

We give thanks and praise to God, for the miracle of birth and life.  

Our condolences to Barbara Peters & Jodie McCann on the death of Scott Peters, son and brother.  Give rest, O Christ, to thy servant with thy saints, where sorrow and pain are no more, neither sighing, but life everlasting.
Meal Train for The Green Family

Meal Train for the Green Family:  Congratulations to the Green Family on the birthday of their daughter, Caroline Beckwith Green, born on Friday, October 27, 2017 - 8 lbs 4 oz, 21 in".  Let's show our love and support for the Green Family as they settle in with their newborn baby girl.  Anyone who would like to help provide them with some delicious meals can visit the site listed below, and go to the Meal Train we have set up.!  Thanks!! https://www.mealtrain.com/trains/wo55k1  

Creary McPowers will be happy to deliver any meals and would kindly request that they get to her by 2:30/2:45 no later.  Please let Creary know if you plan on doing so.  Also-NO meal delivery next week for the Thanksgiving Holiday.  Thank you for all that have contributed!
Interfaith Thanksgiving Service - This Sunday
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Please join us for the annualDeerfield-Highland Park Interfaith Thanksgiving Service on Sunday, November 19 at 7:00 p.m.  Hosted by Lakeside Congregation, 1221 County Line Road, Highland Park, IL  Sponsored by Religious Leaders United.
Listed Below

The Bishop of Chicago, Jeffrey Lee, will be visiting Trinity on Sunday, December 10.  We will have only one service that day at 10am.  See the announcement below about a special reception for the Bishop.
Advent Books:  Living Well - Through Advent 2017

We have limited quantities of the Living Compass - Advent Guides, for 2017.

A beautiful booklet about Practicing Wonder With All Your Heart, Soul, Strength, and Mind.  

Guides can be found on the table in the Choir Forming Room.
Sunday Morning Adult Forums at Trinity

"Parable: Old and New"

The parables of Jesus are intended to turn our expectations on their head, to open our eyes to the ways God is at work in the world. We will be looking at parables Jesus told and what his original hearers would have heard in them, as well as new parables by Peter Rollins intended to help us see and question the assumptions in our lives and faith today.  

Join us for the discussion each week!  Sundays @ 9:00 a.m in the Guild Room
Contact: Jennifer Ould 224-430-3872
A Reading Study Group on Theology

Our next meeting will be at the home of Annette Johnston, 836 Burton, HP at 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, November 29.  All our welcome. 

We will continue our discussion of Abraham Heschel's book, THE PROPHETS.  For questions please call Priscilla McGraw at 317-753-3137
Advent Adult Forum: "Justice": 
Fr. Court will be leading an Advent Adult Forum series on the concept of Justice. The forums will be on Sunday mornings during Advent from 9:15 - 9:45 a.m. in the Guild Room.
December 3:     Justice - What is it?
December 10:   Justice - In the Bible.
December 17:   Justice - In the Church.
December 24:   Justice - In our Community
Saturday Morning Men's Bible Study

Saturday Morning Men's Bible Study at 9:00 a.m.  All men in the church are invited to attend. We will have coffee and goodies and discuss Sunday's readings.
Trinity History Committee 

The Trinity History Committee meets the second Saturday of the month at 10:00 in the Guild Room. Please feel free to join us Saturday, December 9 Questions? Contact Nancy Freeman at nfreeman@frii.com or 970-22-4663
The Bishop is Coming to Trinity

We will have a special coffee hour on Sunday, December 10 to honor Bishop Jeffrey Lee's visit to Trinity.  Parishioners are being asked to bring a special dish or favorite food  to share.  A sign-up sheet has been placed in the choir forming room. Cynthia Wolpert and Kevin Blackstock will coordinate the set-up, preparing coffee, and clean-up.  Any volunteers who would like to help would be most welcome.

Please note - there will be only one service on this Sunday at 10 a.m.
Food For Thought

Food for Thought is completely dependent upon the generosity of you, our members. The shopping list can be found on the church website or on the table in the choir forming room. We generally shop for the designated items to fill 10 bags and rely on monthly contributions of $225 per month to pay for these items. Thank you for your generosity! Our next In-Gathering is Sunday, December 10
Trinity Book Group - This Monday

All are invited to attend the next Trinity Book Group meeting on 
Monday, December 11 at 6:30 p.m. 
at the home of Cynthia Wolpert 

This will also count as our Christmas party!!
Please consider coming even if you haven't read the book.
And please bring your top 10 favorite books, a fun activity and we will consider reading a classic sometime soon perhaps based on what some people's choices are.

Our next book is 
"The Lilac Girls"   by Martha Hall Kelly

Any questions - contact Maria Fiocchi at mjfiocchi@hotmail.com
From the Wardens & Vestry:

Vestry Meeting Minutes and Financial Reports:
Click the links below to view our most recent Vestry Meeting Minutes and our current Financial Reports.

Vestry Minutes - September
Ken Fambro, Richard Monzingo, Fred Putz, Barbara Peters
Relatives & Friends
Highland Park Police Department
Marilyn - prayers for healing (friend of parishioner Hood Seely-Brown)
David Knapp (former parishioner)
James Bicknell (brother of John Bicknell)
Anne, Jenna, Pat, David, Pablo (friends of Mary Seaver)
Cara & Aaron and their foster twins (friends of Suzy Born)
Mehdi Hirani (friend of Cathy Mossler)
Ruth LaVerne Pauls (mother of Laurel Lester)
Joanna (friend of Seely/Browns and Malcolms)
Ashlynn Baeseman (niece of Scott Baeseman)
Arden Baeseman (father of Scott Baeseman)
Audrey Baer (family of Mary Baer)
Len Hanson (friend of Marilyn & Fred Putz)
Shawna Parti (neice of Cathy Mossler)
Daniel Turney (friend of Paul Nelis)
John Shotts (father of Rick Shotts)
Toni Stanley & Ben Bradley (relatives of Sue Barber)
Linda DeGraff (mother of Julie Williams)
Anne Pajcic (friend of Hood & Horace Seely-Brown
Susan & Andy Plasz (family of Priscilla McGraw)
Jim Schell (friend of Rae & Kirk Malcolm)
Holly Adams (cousin of Katie Bratton)
Erica (friend of Fred & Annette Johnston)
Kristin & Kate (relatives of Sue & Peter Barber)
Bob & Debbie (relatives of Sue & Peter Barber)
Roger Cole
Trudy Winkler (niece of Werner Diebel)
Seab (friend of BJ & Bob Kohn)
David Schulte, Jr. (son of Ginny Schulte)
Molly Mulsoff  (friend of Seely & Hood)
Vince (friend of Fred Johnston)
Marcial Alix Jr.  & the Alix Family (father of Jack Alix)
Elly Kennicott (sister-in-law of Sue Tappert)
The Smith Family: Hank, Erica and Tucker (family of Maura Hagestad)
Those serving in the Armed Forces and their Families
Ben Chellew, nephew of Cynthia Hines
The 822nd MP deployed to Afghanistan
Those who have died
We remember today, Scott Peters, son of Barbara Peters and brother of Jodie McCann, and all those we love but see no longer, especially those buried here in St. Michael's Chapel
Please submit prayer requests to Martha in the Parish Office at office@trinitychurchhp.org 
Please provide first and last name and your relation to the person

Annual Meeting Report:

Fr. Court's Annual Address to

Trinity Episcopal Church's Annual Meeting

February 5, 2017

One of my favorite quotes is, "what would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?" It is an anonymous quote, but one that really points to the power of fear, insecurity, and doubt in human life. When I speak to parishioners in different churches I have visited, I often hear stories about how they always thought that they should do this program or that program, start that outreach activity, or try a particular change in their liturgy. They always say, "if we had only..." They had great ideas of things that they truly felt called to do, but were too paralyzed by fear and self-doubt to actually implement or try them. They were too worried that others wouldn't like the idea. They were afraid that it would be seen as a dumb idea. Mostly, though, they were afraid that it would fail and they would look stupid. 

Often, they point back in their history to Fr. So-and-so or Mr. Smith or Mrs. Jones, some leader who had begun some ground-breaking new thing at their church which had completely revitalized them. They always say the same thing, "Oh, if only we were that smart, that we might come up with a great idea! If only we were able to start something that audacious or that grand. It would be so great!" The only difference between those leaders of yesteryear and us, is the willingness to risk failure in order to take the first step. 

You've all heard me say before that we ought to treat ourselves, and our elected parish leadership, the way we teach children how to walk. When you have a little one who is just learning to walk, we get really excited when they begin "cruising" around the furniture. They pull themselves up on every coffee table or chair and walk endlessly around it, using it to stabilize themselves. And it is SO CUTE! We just love watching them do this. Then one day it happens. They launch themselves away from the piece of furniture to which they have been clinging and step out boldly in a new direction, completely without support. Their they go, all by themselves, walking across the room! Oh my gosh!! They take two or three magical steps and then - KERPLOP - they lose their balance and fall right on their bottom. And what do we do? We punish them, right? NO! We cheer them on! We are the proudest parents on the planet at that moment, because we have the most amazing kid ever in history. Our amazing little one just walked three whole steps, BY THEMSELVES!! My kid is the smartest kid ever! And we pick them up, stand them on their feet and send them off, toddling across the room again with us cheering behind them for every two or three wobbly steps they make! That's how great parents teach great kids to walk.

If we would treat ourselves that way, we would get so much more accomplished. The problem is, we judge ourselves so harshly. We judge ourselves against our perception of how everyone else in the world is doing. We say things like, "I'm not as smart as him," or "I'm not as talented as her," or "I'm not as athletic or good looking or graceful as them." We do this destructive self-talk all the time, it's like a constant dictatorial inner-monologue of criticism in our head. And it's toxic, because it stops us from trying new things. We have told ourselves that, in comparison to someone else, we just aren't smart, and so we never try that class in economics that has always intrigued us at the local Community College because we know, internally, that we will fail at it. We don't even try, because we have already failed inside.

I am as guilty of this as anyone. I try not to let negative self-talk dominate my life, and my decision making, but it sneaks in there. One thing I began last year, as a way of saying goodbye to negative self-talk was to begin taking violin lessons. Internally, I thought to myself, I can't take these lessons. Ann, my violin teacher, who is amazingly talented, will think I'm terrible and wonder why I'm not progressing as quickly as the Elementary School kids she teaches. My own kids, who will have to listen to me practice, will giggle at me and wonder why their dad is doing something so silly. But I set all those fears and anxieties aside, and signed up for lessons, and you know what? I'm having a great time learning to play the violin. Yes, it is slow going. It is hard to learn something new at my age. But Ann never loses her patience with me, encouraging me to learn at my own pace. My kids never giggle at me, and are quite supportive of my efforts. I have discovered something that makes me happy, that keeps my mind active as I stretch to learn, and that enriches my life, but I wouldn't never have discovered that if I had let my self-talk, my doubts, and my fears rule me.

All of us feel a part of our church. We are Trinity and Trinity is us. We put our money, our time, and our talents into making this parish a success. Because of all that, we feel personally connected to this parish. All parishioners in all churches feel this way. Because of that personal connection, we tend to react emotionally to changes at our parish. We want it to be what we have become accustomed to it being. We don't want to see it struggle in any way. We don't want to see it fail in any way. If we try anything new, it must come out completely baked, 100 percent finished and perfect, ready to go. The problem is, whenever a change is contemplated, our corporate negative self-talk kicks in and we come up with a whole list of reasons why we can't or shouldn't try something. We say things like, "what will newcomers think?" or "what if some people leave because of this?" or "what if I don't really like the change?" In order to prevent our internal fears from coming true, we become unwilling to allow any changes whatsoever.

The problem is, we miss out on so many wonderful blessings when we let fear rule our thinking and decision making. Our parish is constantly changing. People die or move away. New people come. The people of yesterday are the church. But so are the people of today. And so are the people of tomorrow. By never allowing change to take place, we freeze our parish into the personality of one particular group of people. We never allow new people to affect us. We are basically telling them that we have no place for them. When anything stops growing, when it becomes stagnant, death begins to take hold. 

The answer to death is life! Life in our savior Jesus Christ. As a parish, we are not called to do that which the Rector wants. We are not called to do that which the Vestry wants. We are not called to do that which the majority wants. As a parish, we are called to do that which Jesus Christ calls us to do. We are called to spread the Gospel of Jesus Christ to our community. We are called to be the Gospel of Jesus Christ to our Community. We are called to live the Gospel of Jesus Christ in our community. 

Which means we, as a community, must discern God's call to us as a community. The Vestry and I, as leaders in this parish, have been discerning God's call for this parish. We have talked about it, prayed about it, and argued about it. We will continue to discern God's call every day, praying for God's guidance. We will also be rolling out some changes to the parish. Later in this meeting, you will be hearing about some new ministries, new liturgies, and new outreach. Yes, it will be hard for some of us. Yes, it may bring some negative self-talk. Yes, we might take a few steps and fall on our backsides. But together, we will pick ourselves up, brush ourselves off, and try again. Only through trying to do God's will do we have a chance to actually do God's will. 

As we look forward to 2017, I see a great many blessings for Trinity Parish. We have a wonderful group of committed Vestry who care deeply about this parish, who respect its past and traditions, and who are committed to helping it grow into a new future. We have amazing lay leadership in so many areas of our parish, from leadership to teaching to ministries and to outreach. We are a functional and growing parish, ready to step boldly into a bright new future together.

I encourage you to pray for all in leadership, that we might always keep God's will forefront in all we do. I encourage and bid you to give a word of support when you can. I also encourage you to reach out with questions or concerns or feedback, that we might continually work toward a brighter future. I encourage you to understand when we take a few wobbly footsteps and fall, and encourage us all to get back up and try again. Only by working together, bravely, courageously, and patiently can we truly move forward in God's mission.

Lastly, I want to give thanks to all of you for all of your support this year. You are all truly a blessing. God has blessed me richly by bringing me to this amazing parish and I am thankful for that every day. I am thankful for all of you. And I am thankful that God has a plan for us here at Trinity. So let's get ready to take a few wobbly steps along God's path of light, holding one another in prayer, in love, and in community together.

Thank you!

New Things for 2017

The Vestry has been working diligently to Discern God's call in our parish. Trinity church does many amazing things, but are they all what God is calling us to do, here in Highland Park, in 2017? Who we are as a church is different than who we were when we started many of these programs. 

Highland Park is different than a lot of north shore suburbs. We are geographically very large, with a diverse population. We are not only ethnically, racially, and religiously diverse, but socio-economically diverse as well. There is a wide range of diversity in income, life-style, and housing in our community. There are many opportunities for outreach right here in our own community. Many people in Highland Park and Highwood are food insecure, which means that they are not guaranteed a meal on the table at the end of the day. Many people in our community live paycheck to paycheck, if not day to day. To that end, we have decided to step out boldly into some new areas.

Change to the 10:00 a.m. Liturgy

The first change is to our 10:00 a.m. liturgy. Now I know that any change to our services can bring a lot of fear, worry, and angst. That is why we are doing this as a trial period first. From the first Sunday in Lent, Sunday March 5th, through the seasons of Lent and Easter, up until Trinity Sunday, Sunday June 11th, our 10:00 a.m. service will become bi-lingual. We are going to format it the way we do on our Dia De Los Muertos Sunday, where the bulletin is printed in both languages in a side-by-side format. The first reading will be read in Spanish. The Second lesson in English. And the Gospel in both languages. We will endeavor to incorporate Spanish service music and anthems wherever possible as well. 

We plan to advertise this in the schools with high Hispanic populations, as well as restaurants, Hispanic and Latino grocery stores throughout our area. We had some Hispanic guests at our Dia De Los Muertos service who told us that, if we had this every Sunday, they would come. They told us that everyone assumes that they are all Catholic, but many are not, and don't feel a welcoming invitation to any particular church.

Yes, this is going to be different. Yes, this means new people coming to our church. Yes, it might be hard to understand some of them. Yes, it might change us. It might also be exciting and transforming. 

During the process, if you have questions or concerns, please feel free to contact me or a vestry member and we can make sure that your questions are answered. Please remember that this is just one wobbly step for us. That we need to be patient. That we need to be supportive of one another. That we need to encourage one another as we move forward.

Anyone interested in being on the planning committee for the bi-lingual service, please let me know.

New Community Meal Proposal

Trinity has participated in the Christ Church, Waukegan feeding ministry for many years. It is a great program which feeds a lot of people in need. But we here in Highland Park have people right outside our door which need fed. People who may have enough money and food to make it from Monday dinner to Saturday dinner, but have nothing for Sunday. It was brought to my attention, by multiple people in our parish, that we should consider doing a community meal right here at Trinity.

I began my contacting the Mayor of Highland Park, The Honorable Nancy Rotering, the City Manager of Highland Park, Ms. Ghida Newkirch, and the Township Superivsor, Ms. Ann Bassi. All were supportive of the idea and agreed that it was desperately needed here. They all pledge their support of the idea.

Next, I contacted Rabbi Ryan Daniels of Northshore Congregation Israel on Sheridan Road. He is experienced in setting up feeding programs and has agreed to help lead up this effort. We also have the support of the Jewish congregations that are a part of the SELCIRCL (South East Lake County Inter Religious Council). Also, supportive from group were the Christian Churches, the B'Hai Congregation, and the Humanist Congregation. This would be, not only a Ecumenical effort, but an inter-faith one as well.

Lastly, I contacted the Lake County Health Department. In order to do this, we would be required to make some upgrades to our kitchen facilities. Looking realistically at Wolcott Hall, we soon realized we would probably have to make some changes in here as well. As I fretted about that, the Mayor reminded me that the Community House is available to rent and has a kitchen. Unfortunately, it is very small. So, we have some decisions to make.

I am putting together a formal committee, with the permission of the Vestry, to look into what it would take to put on this meal. The biggest impediment would be the cost of upgrading our facilities. But as one Vestry member put it, that would also benefit the parish in other ways as well. 

Before I go any further, I want to make the process very clear. We will NOT DO ANYTHING without your approval. This would be a big step for this parish. The new committee, after doing all its research, will make a recommendation to the Vestry. If the Vestry approves it, then we will set up some town hall style meetings to explain it to the congregation. Once everyone is aware of what we want to do and has had all their questions answered, then we will have a parish meeting to vote on our next step. WE WILL NOT DO ANYTHING without your knowledge and approval. You will have lots of opportunity to see, to ask, to question, to suggest.

I encourage you to pray about this as we move forward this year. Pray that we will have God's guidance in this process. Pray for discernment, that God might be calling you to be a part of this process. Pray for all this doing this work. 

Let me know if any of you want to be a part of the Community Meal Committee.

New Outreach Committee

We are setting up a new Outreach Committee. This committee is going to look at all of our current outreach projects. They are then going to examine new outreach projects and come up with recommendations for the parish. None of our current outreach projects are bad, but are they what God wants us to be doing right now? Is there something else that we should be reaching out into our community and doing? We are called to live out the Gospel in our community, what is the best way for us to do that?

Please let me know if you would like to be on the new Outreach Committee.

February 5, 2017 Sermon     Isaiah 58: 1- 12

5 Epiphany (A)                   Psalm 112

Trinity, Highland Park                             1 Corinthians 2: 1 - 16

Annual Meeting                      Matthew 5: 13 - 20

"Salty Salt"

In today's Gospel reading, we hear about salt. We are all familiar with salt. We probably all have a shaker of it sitting on our dining room table, or perhaps, by the kitchen stove. Living in a state which gets its fair share of snow and ice, we are all familiar with salt's de-icing properties. What is salt, though? We know that it is a mineral compound made up of sodium and chlorine existing in a cubic crystalline form. We know it can be used to preserve meat from spoiling. We know it can be used to melt snow and ice off streets and sidewalks, as well as help in the creation of homemade ice cream. We also know it can be used to flavor food. Lastly, we know that it tastes salty.

Saltiness is a defining characteristic of salt. Preserving meat or melting ice are uses of salt, but saltiness is a defining characteristic. If salt were not salty, it would not be salt. 

I remember in one of my Middle School years, my science teacher put two small bowls in front of us. Both bowls contained white, crystalline substances. We were to figure out what they were by merely looking at them. Of course, we could only guess what they were. We guessed salt, sugar, or some other substance. My teacher then asked, "if I tell you that the bowls are either sugar or salt, how would you tell the difference?" We, of course said, "taste it!" And so we did, discovering that the one which tasted sweet was sugar, and the one which tasted salty was salt. Salt is salty. And if it's not salty, it's not salt. 

Now that seems like a really obvious, if not really dumb thing to say, "salt is salty or it's not salt." but that concept has powerful consequences for us as Christians. We Christians have a defining characteristic, and that is to be "Christ-like." We are called to live lives that are exemplified by Christ-like behavior. We are called to live the way Jesus taught us to live through his teachings and through the manner in which he lived his life. To do otherwise, is to not be Christian. Living Christ-like lives is a defining characteristic of Christians. Or, more accurately, attempting to live Christ-like lives is a defining characteristic of Christians. Just as salt is "salty," Christians are "Christ-like."

What this means is that, as Christians, we must examine our lives daily to see if we are truly living our lives in a Christ-like manner. Are we doing that which God called us to do? This can be difficult work, as it calls us to honestly look at how we lead our lives. One way to start is by looking at our Sunday mornings.

What we do on Sunday morning sets up our week. Do we stay in bed, justifying not attending church by telling ourselves that we, "worship on the golf course," or that "being in nature is our cathedral?" or that "Oh, God will understand that I've had a busy week?" And if we do come to church on Sunday morning, are we really just tolerating the liturgy so that we can get to our "Blessed Brunch?" Is Sunday at church just our Holy Huddle, inwardly focused on ourselves and our close friends? Sometimes you hear someone say, "Oh, I think I'm going to find a new church because I'm just not getting anything out of this one. I don't feel fed." If you find yourself saying this, I have bad news for you, you're doing church wrong.

There is an old saying about marriage that goes like this, marriage is an empty box, the only thing in it is that which you put into it. So many people that I counsel who are having marital problems tell me, "I don't get anything out of the marriage." But, the only thing IN the marriage is what you put into it. If the marriage is full of love, and joy, and excitement, it is because you, and your spouse, have put it into the marriage box. If the marriage box is empty, it is because you have been trying to take out more than you put in. Getting married is NOT about having someone to make you happy for the rest of your life, it is about having someone that YOU get to make happy for the rest of YOUR life. Don't get married if your true joy isn't being connected for life to that other person, dedicated to loving them in every way. Church is the same way.

Church is a box containing two things, the love of God and God's people. That's it. It has God's unconditional, amazing and overwhelming love for us, and it has other people for us to love. If we come to church expecting to be fulfilled or self-actualized or have our self-esteem pumped up, then we are taking out of an empty box. But, if we come to be filled up with the love of God and have the opportunity to be in relationship with God's children, then Church will become an amazing place. But we have to remember that Church is NOT the end though, it is not the final destination, it is the starting point, the beginning.

Sunday morning is where we come to worship and praise God. Sunday morning is where we come to reach across the altar rail from our world, into the world of the Divine in order to be filled with the body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ, in order to be filled with God's grace, so that we might go out into our world to love and serve him. 

There is a church that has a sign at the exit of their parking lot. Where it is located, everyone sees it every Sunday. This sign says this:

You are now entering God's mission field.

The liturgy has ended and the service begins.

Go in peace, to love and serve the Lord.

I love that sign! What a great reminder that we are not called to our supper club or blessed brunch or our holy huddle on Sunday morning, but we are called to be filled with the light of the Holy Spirit, to be filled with the invigorating grace of God, to be empowered by the body and blood of Jesus Christ to go out into our world and to live the Gospel at every time, in every place, to every one! We are called to go out and to live Christ-like lives of love and service. We are called to go out and see a world which is an empty box and to fill it up with the love of God.

Salt without saltiness is not salt. A lamp put under a bushel basket is not a lamp. If we deny our basic defining characteristic as Christians, that of being loved by God so that we might go out and love the world, then we are not Christians. If Sunday morning is just this, just this building and just our coffee hour and just our coming together as a group of like-minded friendly people, then we are no longer Christians. Sunday morning has to be more than that, it has to be more than just us, it has to involve others. Jesus Christ died for us, descended to the grave, rose again, and ascended into heaven so that we might be freed from sin, freed from the grave, and more importantly, to eternally bind us once again to God. Through Jesus Christ's salvific action, we enter the garden once again, guaranteed eternal life in God through Jesus Christ. That is amazing news! That is the Good News of the Gospel. That is what we are called to share, through loving action with all of the world. That is why Sunday morning is important. That is why Sunday morning is the starting point. That is why we come, why we pray and worship and praise, and that is why we go forth in love.

Let's go forth each and every day to let the light of Jesus Christ shine through our lives onto the whole world. Let's go forth each day and be salty, be Christians, be the love of God in our world.  Amen.